The Effect of Reconciliation on Separation Agreements

Brandi Petterson - Colorado Divorce Lawyer
When a party files a dissolution of marriage action, often times they will reach an agreement concerning the allocation of the parties’ property, including their assets and debts. This is known as a Separation Agreement and it may also contain a provision concerning spousal maintenance. This is referred to as “contractual†spousal maintenance.
Imagine that the Court issues a Decree for Dissolution of Marriage. Subsequently, imagine that the parties decide to reconcile their relationship and might even move in together. So what happens to those provisions set forth in your Separation Agreement? Largely, this will based upon the time frame specified in the Separation Agreement that provides for when certain events must happen. For example, the agreement may provide that “within thirty days of the date of the Court’s issuance of a Decree for Dissolution of Marriage, the Petitioner shall sign over the car title to Respondent.†In this situation, whether that provision of the separation agreement is still in effect will likely depend upon whether this provision has been satisfied prior to the reconciliation. However, if your separation agreement addresses on-going obligations, such as the monthly payment of spousal maintenance, whether that provision is still in effect is not as cut and dry.
The Colorado Court of Appeals has consistently held that reconciliation does not automatically terminate a property settlement; however, in determining whether a reconciliation has terminated a property settlement agreement, the trier of fact must ascertain from the evidence whether the parties intended to revoke the agreement upon reconciliation. Morrell v. Morrell, 687 P.2d 1319, 1322 (Colo. App. 1984). Moreover, the burden of attempting to prove that the reconciliation did not terminate the agreement lies with the party arguing for this proposition.
The portions of the separation agreement that have not yet been fully executed are those which may be terminated upon the parties’ reconciliation. This is important to keep in mind if you are intending to reconcile with your former husband or wife. Should the reconciliation head south, the likelihood that the party who was supposed to receive maintenance or other property pursuant to separation agreement may very well try to obtain those payments or his or her share of property.
Therefore, it is important to make your intentions known, just to be on the safe side. If you and your former spouse intend to reconcile, and you are still on the hook for making payments or transferring property pursuant to the separation agreement, it may be wise to put those intentions in writing. For good measure, and depending on the circumstances, you may want to file your intentions with the Court.

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